To be wanted is much more valuable than to be needed.

What Do You Say?

What do you say to someone who hates themself? What do you say when they confide in you? How do you comfort a lost soul or help them to move on? What do you tell someone who is stuck in a pit that they themselves keep digging deeper and deeper? What advice can you utter when it falls on deaf ears? How do you help, what can you do, how do you cope, and what do you say, especially when that person is you?

Good Quotes

Our demons are often more terrifying than physical things...

-Kristin

It seems that the things you least expect in life have a way of finding you and forcing you to pay attention at the times you would least expect them to.

-Ashley

Your past doesn’t change who you have become. It just brings more understanding to those who know you now.

-Ashley

V-day Ryhmes With D-day

now isnt that an interesting coincidence lol. jk jk but it sure seems like someone was planning that one. single people make Valentines Day miserable for everyone else. just shut up already!!!! we understand y u dont like this holiday but guess wat..........its not gonna change so get over it!!!! im tired of people openly whining about and criticising people who actually enjoy this day. now of course not allllll single people do this and not all couples loooove this holiday either, please understand im generalizing by the people that i hang out with most. i personally dont give a rip why people like it or dislike it, but it usually boils down to the day has grown waaaaaay too important. sure if u have a significant other it is a fun day to exchange surprises and have a good time, but if u dont then dont get all worked up about it. its still fun to hang with friends and do cards and candy. everyone loves a nice card that tells them u care and maybe a piece of candy to sweeten em up lol. just cuz its almost v-day doesnt mean u should go out and find a bf or gf so that u can have warm fuzzy feelings on that day too and u dont feel left out. create yer own day and yer own moments with people who r important to u that will last a lot longer than a temp bf or gf fer the holidays and some dried up roses.

Thank You For You

as most of u kno i nanny on monday nights. the kids are adorable and i love them sooooo much. tonight as they were saying their bedtime prayers Alyssa said the usual thank you for my family, mom, dad, and Darcen. and then she said, "Lord, thank you for you." this just made me think to myself, how often do we just thank God for him? we don't normally say thank you God for being you and for showing me your glory today. When i heard her say that i couldnt help but thank him for reminding me of himself through this precious child. when we see the mountains covered in snow with majestic purples and blues, or when we see a gorgeous sunset with beautiful golden clouds. deep reds and yellows in the flowers or even a patch of grass after a long winter, we r not just seeing creation. we r seeing the gentle touch of the creator at work. Thank You God For You!!!!! for your amazing splendor and for showing us your glory!!!!

Surprise I Can...

have you ever surprised people so much that afterwards they think of u in a completely different way? or have u never done something in front of a crowd that u always do by yerself? then wen u do it in front of a crowd they ask u where u have been hiding yer whole life and it surprises u cuz u r so used to it yerself. people should be more open minded about others and allow for surprises in them. am i making any sense? like when someone does something exceptional, just cuz we have never seen them do anything like it before doesnt mean we should be surprised. idk guess it doesnt matter much what do u guys think?